This article will show you 18 different kissing tips and techniques that you can try and apply straight away. This is the ultimate guide on how to kiss someone with passion and intensity to show them how much you really care and love them. If you do it right, you can be sure that you will get back more than double! The article is written from the perspective "She kisses him" - but of course it applies to all possible constellations!
1. The hello kiss
Saying hello with a kiss is probably the most obvious thing you can do to your partner. There are many different techniques you can use to give your partner a hello kiss, but a quick kiss on the lips while hugging them is highly recommended.
Another way to say hello is to gently pinch his bottom lip between your lips while slowly pulling away from him. Yum!
2. Kisses on the neck
I really hope you already do. Your partner's neck is a supersensible region and it's a large area. So, next time you kiss, just move your lips to his neck. It's super easy to learn how to kiss his neck.
All you really should be doing is gently pressing your lips together and sucking on a small area of his throat for a second or two. Then move slightly up or down and kiss another nearby area. You can also mix in a little licking when you're not sucking his neck.
If you want it a little bit kinkier while kissing his neck, you can apply a little more pressure while sucking his neck to give him a hickey. Another great technique is to bite his neck VERY gently and hold the skin between your teeth. You should feel your partner breathe a little faster than normal as you do this!
3. Kiss while lying down
You know that wonderful feeling when your partner takes the initiative to kiss? It's hot that he's taking control. While this is an almost universal sentiment, many forget that men like it just as much when you take the initiative and start kissing him. Annoyingly, though, it can be difficult to be the one to initiate the kiss with a guy when he's taller than you.
Thankfully, there's a really easy way to make kissing him a lot easier and more natural. The next time you're lying together, position yourself so that you're lying on your partner's chest. From here it's really easy and feels natural to move up and face him. Then all you have to do is lean in and kiss him.
4. Kiss against a wall
Of course, hugging while kissing is very hot... but there's a move that's a little more passionate than just hugging. The next time you kiss your partner in a place where there is a wall (like your room), try pressing them against it and leaning against them to keep them pressed against the wall.
This is quite a dominant move that will turn him on that much more... especially if you wouldn't normally do something like this. So, if you want to be a little more aggressive than usual, try kissing him against a wall after pushing him against it.
5. The forehead kiss
There's something very comforting about that feeling when you kiss your partner on the forehead (or when they kiss you on the forehead). So, it's probably not the best kissing technique to break out when you want to be super passionate. But if your partner is tired or upset, then it could be the perfect solution.
6. Get kissed
Worried about what to do while kissing your partner? You don't know what to do with your lips, tongue, mouth and hands? Do not worry! Your partner will most likely have the same thoughts. The perfect antidote is to let your partner do all the work. That's right! just sit back, relax and let your man kiss you while you enjoy.
If you feel like he's been active for a little too long, all you have to do is imitate him and kiss him back the same way he kissed you. So, if he massaged your lips with his, do the same thing back. If he has licked, sucked, and kissed your neck, do the same to him. Easy!
7. The French Kiss
No article about kissing would be complete without a word about French kissing! French kissing is the perfect way to really show your loved one how passionate you are. Instead of just sticking your tongue down his throat and twirling it around like a washing machine, it's actually far more tempting to slow things down and almost tease while kissing.
Start by sticking your tongue out a bit and then use it to gently massage and caress his lips. Your partner should take the hint and will do the same. Once he opens his mouth a little and sticks his tongue out, you can start massaging him with yours.
Try alternating between massaging his tongue with yours and massaging his lips with yours for a few seconds, then have him do the same to you with his tongue while making sure to mix in regular kisses as well. That's really all!
8. Kiss after long eye contact
Most of these kissing tips describe exactly what you can "physically" do with your partner. By "physical" in this context, we mean that there are tips for what you can do with your lips, tongue, teeth and hands. It's all important, but just as important is how you make him feel.
A good way to show him how much you love and care about him is to first for a few seconds make deep eye contact before you kiss him.
Now this isn't something you can just force if you feel like it. You really should wait until the time is right. When the time comes, you will know.
It's also something you should use very sparingly. The less you use this technique, the more powerful it becomes. In other words, the less you do, he will crave for it.
9. Kiss from behind
It's very sexy and even a little submissive when your partner hugs you from behind and you lean back to kiss him. He can even help steer you by placing his hand on your neck. Again, this is one of those techniques that works best when not forced, only when it feels right.
10. Caress while kissing
Massaging your partner's scalp or hugging it isn't the only thing you can do with your hands while kissing them. Don't forget to run your hands all over his body... his chest, his back, his arms, his shoulders and don't forget his butt! It's nice when you two are in a private place. But when you're both naked in bed, it's much more intimate and fun!
11. Kiss when you're happy
Sharing a kiss with your partner when you are happy is not such a kissing tip that will make him fall in love with you. It's actually just a beautiful thing to make a very beautiful moment more intimate with your partner. Maybe you're joking with him or you're both laughing at something that happened recently. When it comes together and feels right, just lean in and give him a quick kiss. Don't try to force it or do it too often. The key is to keep it natural. If you feel like it's getting awkward, just wait until later.
12. Kiss when it's windy and cold
Kissing your partner in the same places over and over gets boring very quickly, especially if it's always private or always in a predictable place. So try kissing your partner when it's windy and cold. It's so unexpected, but at the same time there's something incredibly calming and warm about it. There really isn't much more to say about it. Try it out and see for yourself.
13. play with the ear
Your partner's ear (especially the earlobe) is incredibly sensitive. It is often even more sensitive than his lips. A unique way to enhance the kissing sensation is to gently play your fingers with his earlobe as you kiss him.
Instead of just randomly grabbing his ear while kissing him, it will seem more natural if you first hold his neck in your hands and then move your fingers to his ear and start playing with his earlobe. It will also feel much more natural to play with just one of his earlobes rather than both at the same time.
14. Suck on the earlobe
Your partner's ear shouldn't be the only subject of this article, but here's a tip. The earlobe is super sensitive, so your partner will definitely appreciate it if you pay a lot of attention to this part of the body.
A really gentle way to stimulate the earlobe is to gently suck on it with your lips. Then, when you're done, press it lightly between your lips and slowly pull away, pulling it through your lips. Another option is to use your teeth and do the exact same thing. Remember to only apply super-light pressure. Don't be surprised if your partner trembles with joy!
15. Kiss in a public place
Kissing your partner in a public place isn't something everyone is comfortable with, but you might want to try it at least once. We're not talking about a bar or a club, but somewhere in the city outdoors, like on a street or in a mall.
Some people don't realize they like the idea of other people seeing them kiss their man until they actually try. Who knows, maybe you will too!
16. Kiss with tenderness
If your partner is tired, feeling down, or just not in a good mood, they probably won't respond well to you kissing them super passionately. In fact, if you do this when he's not in the mood, it could really turn him off. A much better way to kiss him is to show him that you care. Kissing him tenderly will do just that.
Kissing him tenderly is super easy, just gently massage his lips between yours, kiss him on the cheek and touch and even hug him.
17. Involving the scalp in the kiss
"What should I do with my hands when I'm kissing my partner?" The easiest answer is to just hug your partner by wrapping your hands around them. But that can get a bit boring over time. A much more passionate way using your hands consists of massaging and gently scratching his scalp, especially the back of his head.
It is super sensitive and feels wonderful as the scalp is rubbed, stroked, massaged and scratched. So next time you kiss him give it a try, your partner will love it. After a while, just take his hand and place it on your scalp. The back of your scalp is by far the most sensitive. Most will instinctively know what to do from here.
18. Kisses with passion
Hope you enjoy all of these kissing tips. One mistake people often make after reading a list of sexy, hot things is that they just apply them like rules. They think they should try every kissing tip once and all the tips in order or something like that.
This is not hot or sexy at all. It will make your partner think that he is kissing an emotionless robot! A much better way to kiss him is to just try 1 or 2 of these tips and then just do what feels right and good. This will lead to a much more passionate kissing where you just enjoy what you are doing and lose yourself in the moment rather than worrying about what to do next.
So use each of these kissing techniques as a rough guide, not hard rules to follow. When you do this, you'll find that it feels very natural and it's a lot easier to kiss your partner with passion.
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