Vulva lecken: Anleitung für guten Oralsex

Oral Sex - A Guide to Cunnilingus and Fellatio

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Oral sex: One of the most beautiful sex practices ever!

It's the tingling mixture of pampering and being pampered that makes oral sex so incredibly intimate, exciting and pleasurable. Bring an open mindset full of curiosity and allow yourself to explore together. As always, there is no such thing as too much communication! Questions like "Do you like that?" or "Is that good?" are important and will help you understand what your partner is into about oral sex.

Important: Many find it difficult either to give oral sex or to indulge in receiving. Be honest with each other, approach each other slowly and try to find out together how you can have fun and enjoy yourself actively and passively!

 

Date Box Oral Total

You will find a basic guide here to help you get started as a rough guide to oral sex. In our Date Box Oral Total you will get inspiration for hot techniques for cunnilingus and fellatio as well as tingling accessories for oral lip service!

Cunnilingus: Everything about a woman's pleasure zones

With cunnilingus (Latin for "to lick the vulva"), the external female genital organs, i.e. the clitoris, the vulva lips or the vagina opening, are pampered with the tongue, lips or teeth. The female body also has other errogenous zones that can arouse intense feelings of pleasure:

The inside of the thighs: Licking, stroking, and nibbling your way up the inside of the thighs to the vagina is guaranteed to provide plenty of tension and arousal.

The clitoris: The it girl of female lust! Every woman has a different clitoral sensitivity. Some prefer strong hugs, others prefer gentle caresses or indirect caresses.

The vulval lips: Like a kind of funnel at the entrance to the vagina, the vulval lips have cavernous bodies that enlarge with sexual arousal. Even if the vulval lips are (unfortunately!) often neglected, they still want to be stroked. So it's worth trying out!

The vagina opening: Also the opening of the vagina is spoiled with with pleasure with the mouth. You can penetrate a few centimeters into the vagina with your tongue because the particularly erogenous zones are located in the entrance area.

The perineal region: This zone between the vaginal opening and the anus is highly receptive to oral stimulation and extremely erogenous. 

The right preparation for cunnilingus

Since your partner gets very close to your vagina when licking, you should pay attention to intimate hygiene. Here it is important to find a good balance and not to overdo it: heavily perfumed care products can attack the natural vaginal flora. It is best to wash yourself beforehand with your hand or a washcloth and lukewarm water, or you jump under a hot shower together. If it helps you feel more comfortable "down there," you can freshly shave.

What are cunnilingus techniques?

As a general rule, start slowly and cautiously and pay attention to their reactions. The point here is not to work through a rigid sequence of different techniques but to find out what makes them really hot! As your arousal increases, you can increase the pressure and pace.

Here are different techniques you can try:

  1. False snake: Use your tongue to explore the vulva in wavy lines from top to bottom. Start at the vagina opening, via the labia majora and labia minora, the clitoris to the mons pubis. Repeat the tour a few times.
  2. To the point: Encircle the clitoris with your tongue in a figure eight or circle motion a few times. Gently nibble on the clitoris and suck on it with your lips, creating a slight vacuum. For more intensity, use your thumb to pull up the skin over the clitoris to increase the area. Caution: direct stimulation of the clitoris is too intense for many women. Therefore, be careful and pay close attention to their reactions (breath, moans, movements, etc.)

Meanwhile, stroke her thighs, her stomach, and massage her breasts or pinch her nipples. If your fingers come into play, use lube. Allow your creativity to run wild and lead her to an exploding orgasm. There are more techniques in our Date Box Oral Total

Fellatio: Everything about a man's pleasure zones

The best-known form of oral sex, and one that is very popular with men, is stimulation of the penis through the mouth, tongue, teeth or lips. "Fellatio" is Latin and means "to suck". Colloquially one speaks more of bubbles or a blowjob. Aside from the penis, men have many other erogenous zones. One tip for slowly but surely increasing arousal is to work your way from the most insensitive areas to the most erogenous zones.

The scrotum: Every man has a different sensitivity of the scrotum. Some love to be petted and tongue tickled there, others feel little there. It's best to just try it out!

The perineal area: For the zone between the back of the penis and the anus, kissing, tongue caressing, or even nibbling and light biting are perfect. Strong pressure is even desired here!

The shaft of the penis: The shaft of the penis reacts above all to kisses and caresses, which are supported with strong pressure.

The glans: Great caution is required here! The glans is one of the most sensitive parts of a man's body. It loves to be gently pampered with lips, tongue, saliva or teeth.

The frenulum: The most sensitive part of the glans is the ligament that connects the foreskin of the penis to the underside of the glans. Just a gentle touch creates extreme feelings of pleasure!

Proper preparation for fellatio

Here, too, your partner comes very close to you, so you should pay attention to intimate hygiene and wash yourself thoroughly before the blowjob - the shower in the morning no longer applies in the evening. Trimmed genital hair is also an advantage, since very few people are happy about hair in their mouths during oral sex.

What are fellatio techniques?

As a general rule, start slow and pay attention to his reactions. The point here is not to work through a rigid sequence of different techniques, but to find out what he particularly likes. As your arousal increases, you can increase the pressure and pace. If you feel him about to come, slow down a bit and let him cool down a bit.

Here are different techniques you can try:

  1. Intimate kiss: Gently caress the glans with the tip of your tongue without putting it in your mouth. To build tension, breathe on the glans and kiss it. For goosebumps, put an ice cube in your mouth and run it over the glans - the change in temperature from hot to cold can be incredibly exciting.
  2. Popsicle: Lick his penis from bottom to top with relish, like a popsicle. Compliment him how hot you find his best piece.

Meanwhile, stroke his stomach or testicles. The perineum, the area between the testicles and anus, is extremely erogenous - massage it from time to time with gentle pressure. If your fingers come into play, use lube. Allow yourself to let your creativity run free.There are more techniques in our Date Box Oral Total

The most beautiful positions during oral sex for both

The classic: 69

He lies on his back, she on top of him in the opposite direction, so that you both lie with your faces at the level of each other's genitals. She is better on top: this way she can kneel over his face so that he can better reach the clitoris with his mouth.

 

You can find more tips and inspiration in our Date Box Oral Total